Last Updated on May 29, 2025 by Kelly
What do you think of when you hear the word “Cone?” Do you want to go for some ice cream?
Do you think of annoying traffic? Maybe the VLC logo? In the world of sex toys, a cone means something entirely different.
Cone dildos are great for both beginners and experienced users. Even size queens and kings love them!
There’s something for everyone when you use one, and I wanted to show newcomers just how exciting they can be, just like a triple-scoop cone of your favorite flavors.
I wanted to examine cone dildos, explain their benefits, and give you five options to choose from.
So, let’s get this cone on the road!
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What Are The Benefits Of Using A Cone Dildo?
A cone dildo doesn’t need much of an introduction as to what it is. It’s in the name: a dildo shaped like a cone.
Often, these are the same as butt plugs, but you can find more traditional dildos shaped like cones as well.
But you may wonder why you’d use a cone dildo instead of one that has a more consistent girth to it.
Here are some reasons why you may want to pick one.
Sturdy Base
Since a cone dildo has a skinny top and a wide bottom, it is great for attaching to the floor. Compared to toys with a more consistent girth, it won’t sag or topple over.
Great for Size Queens and Kings
If you’re out of the loop, a size queen (or king) is someone who likes it big. If they aren’t stuffed like a turkey, they’re going home.
Extra-girthy cone dildos are perfect for this, as the gradual increase in girth means they can safely insert something girthy inside of them while needing less prep.
Great for Beginners
You can get less girthy cone dildos that work well for those new to anal or vaginal sex. The dildo’s thin apex is easy to insert, and a newbie can insert more until they’re at their limit.
Also Read: Best Dildos For Beginners – 7 Starter Options
They’re Versatile
A cone dildo comes in different sizes, materials, and features. You can get a silicone, glass, or metal cone dildo.
If you want vibration, there are plenty of cone dildos on the market that will satisfy you, including Bluetooth-powered ones.
Choosing The Right Size And Shape For My First Cone Dildo
Most cone dildos will have a similar shape, so it’s more about size. In general, a cone dildo that has about 1 inch in maximum width is great for beginners.
That being said, it all depends on your limits. Personally, if you’re unsure, you should grab yourself a starter pack.
These packs tend to have three sizes: small, medium, and large, meaning you can start small and work your way up.
5 Best Cone Dildos on the Market
Now, let’s look at some of the best cone dildos you can buy on the market.
1. Lovehoney Pleasure Tip Rechargeable Silicone Vibrator – Best Overall
The first on this list is a cone vibrator specifically meant for vaginal use.
Since cones are commonly associated with butt plugs, you won’t find too many vibrators like this one when you look them up in an online sex shop.
The Pleasure Tip is a gorgeous, colorful vibrator that is great for traveling and for those new to this type of toy.
It is 4.25 inches long and has a circumference of 4.5 inches, so the dildo is more designed for girth lovers.
With 6 patterns and 4 speeds, you can customize it decently enough.
Best of all, the toy is fully waterproof, so you can have some fun in the bath, shower, or pool—your own pool, please!
Pros
- A true cone vaignal vibrator.
- Waterproof and rechargeable.
- Plenty of speeds and patterns to pick from.
Cons
- It’s a bit pricey.
2. Fifty Shades of Grey Delicious Fullness – Best Budget Vibrating Butt Plug
Ah, 50 Shades of Grey. While I’m not the biggest fan of the series (BDSM communities hate it for a reason), the toys are pretty decent.
They’re great for newcomers looking for budget-friendly toys. By those standards, this one is pretty good.
The toy has a circumference and insertable length of 4 inches, making it great for newcomers but also has enough to satisfy the experienced folk as well.
Another thing I love about this toy is that it is waterproof and has 3 speeds and 7 patterns.
That being said, it’s a budget toy, so there are some sacrifices, mainly that it requires an AAA battery and isn’t rechargeable. But it’s a small price to pay.
Speaking of a small price, the toy is currently free on Lovehoney if you spend $89 or more.
I saw the $0 price tag and got a little excited for a second, thinking that it was a no-strings-attached deal. But there’s no such thing as a free lunch or a free plug.
Pros
- Great budget vibrator.
- Waterproof.
- Different speeds and patterns.
Cons
- Requires an AAA battery.
3. Topped Toys Deep Space 50 – Best Long Toy
Many of these cone dildos are a bit short in length. It is what it is in that regard. But the Topped Toys Deep Space 50 is a little different.
This toy has a length of 6.5 insertable inches and a circumference of 5, so it’s one powerful rocket.
The tall shape makes it really easy to squat over and ride up and down, especially with the slight taper.
Plus, the wide size gives you that deep, full feeling and makes it easier to get past your second ring without too much effort.”
Pros
- Long.
- Lovely design.
- It should satisfy size queens.
Cons
- Not for beginners.
4. Icicles No. 26 Clear Glass Butt Plug – Best Glass Toy
I am Glass Toys’ biggest defender. Some of my sex friends don’t want to use it because they imagine the toy breaking, but you gotta understand.
These toys are made from borosilicate glass, meaning they’re pretty durable. As long as you don’t drop it against a hard surface, the toy should be able to take anything you give it.
Glass toys look pretty and can be heated and cooled for temperature play, so they are great in my book.
The toy also has over 4 inches of insertable length and 1.5 inches of width, so it’s great for beginners. But if you’re a size lover, you may be hunting for something bigger.
Pros
- Beautiful glass design.
- Easy to use and clean.
- It’s tough.
Cons
- Some folk may want something a bit spicier.
5. Lovehoney Silicone Butt Plug Set – Best Starter Pack
Finally, let’s talk about the starter pack. These are common with cone-shaped dildos, especially in the world of butt plugs.
This starter pack from Lovehoney is ideal if you don’t know which size to choose. It comes in three sizes: small, medium, and large.
The sizes range from 2.9, 3.5, and 4.4 insertable inches, respectively. And the circumference is 2.5, 3, and 4 inches.
This starter pack is great for when you want to be a size queen or king, or if you want to start from humble beginnings.
The plugs are high-quality silicone and come in unique colors. Overall, there’s not too much to complain about besides the fact that it’s a bit basic.
Pros
- Quality silicone.
- Comes in three sizes.
- Great for beginners and experienced folks alike.
Cons
- It is a little bit basic.
Ways to Use a Cone Dildo (Safely)
It’s always essential to use a cone dildo as safely as possible to avoid an uncomfortable feeling at best, injury at worst.
Here are some ways to be safe while you use one.
Know Your Limits
If you’re new to this world, don’t purchase the biggest tool they have. It’s not like a TV where bigger = better.
Instead, you’ll want to start small or medium-sized, then work your way up or down. I’d recommend buying a set of butt plugs that come in small, medium, and large sizes.
Use Lots of Lube
Lube is so important, especially when it’s going in your ass. Though, I’d recommend some even when it’s going into your vagina.
A water-based lube always works well, but you can use silicone for less application if your cone dildo is made from glass or metal.
Stop if You Feel Pain
As I tell people, know your limits and never continue if you feel pain. Pull it out and give yourself some aftercare.
If you’re a size queen or king in training, don’t feel bad that you couldn’t get it in all the way.
Most people will have to work their way up over time, not take it all at once.
Conclusion
A cone dildo can be fun for girth enjoyers and newcomers alike. These five dildos should be more than enough for both parties, and work well if you’re using it for vaginal or anal sex.
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