Last Updated on September 27, 2023 by Kelly
Your heart wants to take that bold step and use a butt plug. But your mind says the opposite.
In short, you are stuck between being adventurous and staying safe.
I get it where you’re coming from. There are many misconceptions about butt plugs, so your fear isn’t meaningless.
What if I say that a butt plug isn’t harmful at all?
It could be if you don’t know the correct method of using it. But I’m here to take care of that.
In this article, I will weigh up the benefits of butt plugs, how to use them, which one is great for beginners, and other benefits & purposes of plugs
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6 Amazing Benefits of Butt Plugs
You are in for a treat! I am listing some of the benefits of using a butt plug to help you decide if they can benefit you.
I will also give some tips along the way to make anal masturbation more comfortable.
Anal Stimulation
It’s very important to loosen up your anus before engaging in anal sex or masturbation. Otherwise, it can be painful. That’s where butt plugs come in handy.
But before I go any further, you should know that vaginal and anal stimulation are poles apart.
And what makes them so different? Your anal sphincter.
That muscle mostly remains tight even when you’re horny and takes some time to relax. And unlike the vagina, your anus doesn’t self-lubricate. So it takes more effort to stimulate it.
The best way to do this is to insert your fingers in your butthole after applying lots of lube. And then slowly transition to a butt plug.
You don’t have to take the whole length in, even if you’re using the smallest plug. Play with the tip around your butt hole and massage your ass.
Better Orgasms
Do you want to know how anal pleasure works?
It may come as a surprise to know that you can have an orgasm through anal play. But if you look deeper, you will understand why.
The anal pleasure point is known as the A spot which is located at the back of your vagina. It’s not something new at all. You can call it an internal clitoris.
Note: Your clitoris is not just a small bud. What you see at the top of your inner labia is the external clitoris.
The clit is actually 5 inches long, extending inside your vagina.
Big news? This is roughly the average size of a penis!
So, my point is, a butt plug helps with A-spot stimulation, leading to a full clitoris orgasm. This type of orgasm is more intense than a G spot or external clitoris orgasm.
Multiple Sensations
Once you’re aroused and completely relaxed, you can feel different sensations depending on the butt plug.
Most plugs vibrate and replicate the rimming effect. They also have different speeds and patterns that can elicit various levels of pleasure.
As you can see, it’s not just straight forward penetration you’re settling for. Pleasure comes in all forms with butt plugs.
Helps With Constipation
This benefit isn’t sexual, but it’s still worth it.
According to one study, most people reported positive results when they wear butt plugs daily to treat constipation.
Now, that doesn’t mean you should completely ditch a proper treatment for constipation. But if it’s just a one-time thing, a butt plug may be of great help.
If you’re unsure, you can ask your doctor about it.
Double Penetration Sex
Is double penetration one of your fantasies?
If you’re not comfortable with two partners, you can use a butt plug to spice up your sex life.
And even if you’re okay with multiple partners, plugs and dildos will make your experience even more fun.
What’s the ideal position for double penetration? It depends on what feels the most comfortable for you. However, most people prefer the doggy style as it’s easier that way.
Tip: It may be difficult to insert a butt plug when a penis is inside your vagina. So always put the butt plug in first.
Some butt plugs are for the vagina as well, but not all of them are the same. You can see the details in the user guide.
However, you shouldn’t switch the butt plug and penis to avoid bacterial infection unless thoroughly cleaned and rinsed.
Since your partner will have control here, make sure they’re gentle and slow. Double penetration isn’t as smooth as porn shows you.
When done right, it will definitely enhance pleasure. That goes without saying. But don’t forget that your rectum is prone to more tears compared to the vagina. Avoid going too wild with the plug!
Tighter Vagina
When you insert a butt plug in your ass, it puts some pressure on your vaginal canal. This pressing action makes it narrower than before as long as the butt plug stays in.
A butt plug can do magic here if your partner has a small penis and you’re not satisfied.
When the vaginal canal gets narrower, a small penis will feel larger than it is, and there will be more friction against your G spot.
It’s not just you who will have a good time in bed. Your partner will also find the snug fit more pleasurable.
How Long Can You Wear a Butt Plug?
That’s not something people usually think of before trying a butt plug. But after using it once or twice, you may want to know the limit.
So how long can you leave a butt plug in?
If you’re well lubricated and experienced, you can wear your plug for more than 3-4 hours. You can even keep it in for 6 to 7 hours if you do it properly.
Some people even wear butt plugs all day! To see some of the best all day plugs click here.
As you can see, It depends on your body. Everyone has a different threshold for keeping a butt plug in.
Whatever you do, though, don’t try sleeping while wearing a plug. That’s one break you should definitely take!
It’s a bad idea because you are unconscious when you’re asleep and won’t notice if something bad happens.
Also Read: How Long Should You Wear a Butt Plug For?
Is Wearing a Butt Plug Painful?
If you do everything right, pain is not something you should worry about. People wouldn’t be so crazy about butt plugs if they were painful.
If you want a complete step-by-step guide on how to insert a butt plug, click here.
Just because your experience with anal sex was painful doesn’t mean you won’t enjoy wearing a butt plug. That’s the first thing you should know.
Many people try to compare anal toys with anal sex. Both are great in their own way! You will be more open to anal sex if you use butt plugs.
But for now, you need to draw a line here and not recall any bad experiences.
Remember, you have control over your body. If at any point you feel something isn’t right, take the plug out, relax, and try later.
Which Butt Plug is Good for Beginners?
You will come across many different butt plugs. You may even feel tempted to try the biggest one out there.
However, not every plug is right for beginners.
Here are some points to check out.
Safety
How can you know if a butt plug is safe for anal play?
Make sure the base is wider than the plug’s insertable length. That’s a must!
There’s a reason why the base is also known as a ‘stopping point.’ It’s supposed to stay outside your ass.
What can happen if it’s not wide enough? You will have to stay alert while masturbating, so the whole plug doesn’t slip inside accidentally.
Let’s be honest; you can’t always stay careful when you’re aroused and pleasuring yourself. So don’t take any risk and invest in a butt plug with a broader base.
Size
You may have heard, ‘the bigger, the better.’ Well, a bigger butt plug does have its charm!
But as a beginner, you should try something that equals your two fingers (around 0.47’’ to 1.25’’ girth).
Start with a small size, and once you feel comfortable, you can shift to other large butt plugs.
The best way to go about this is to buy a beginner butt plug kit. It has 3-4 plugs of different sizes, so you have a lot of variety to choose from.
See Also: A Beginners Guide To Anal Training
Material
Every material feels different inside your ass. Depending on your budget and preference, you can choose from silicone, glass, metal, rubber, wood, etc.
A wooden butt plug sounds silly, right? It’s not.
Manufacturers invest a lot of time and money in polishing the wood surface and then coating it with other luxurious materials to give a final look. It can cost above $200!
Don’t worry if you can’t afford it. You can easily find a decent plug in your budget range.
For starters, silicone butt plugs are feasible because they don’t weigh much and are nonporous for easy cleaning.
Also Read: What Are Butt Plugs Used For? Uses and Purpose
Final Words
So that’s all for today!
Whether you’re using a butt plug alone or with a partner, don’t forget to use lube. When it comes to anal play, lube acts as a catalyst to kickstart all those good sensations.
I hope these benefits of butt plugs open the doors for more pleasure and fun. No one wants a boring sex life!