Last Updated on May 7, 2024 by Kelly
No matter your gender, anal play can feel so good! But it can be pretty intimidating if you’re new to it. You want anal to feel great and not hurt you.
The best way to have an incredible anal experience is, well, to buy a dildo designed for it.
Enter anal dildos!
These dildos are specifically designed to go in your ass in the safest, most pleasurable ways.
Let’s look at what anal dildos are, factors you should be aware of, and some of my favorite dildos.
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Benefits of Anal Dildos
Anal dildos come with several benefits that you’ll love! These benefits include:
Designed for Anal Insertion
Anal dildos are shaped to go inside the ass. These dildos usually also have a handle so they won’t get stuck inside.
Great for Males and Females
Some anal toys are designed to stimulate the prostate or P-spot. The p-spot is located in those assigned males at birth; stimulating it can feel so good.
P-spot dildos tend to have a curvature that lets them hit that spot with ease. Also, p-spot stimulation is said to have many health benefits.
These benefits include reduced nighttime urination, improved sexual experiences, and more intense ejaculations.
However, if you’re female or assigned female at birth, anal stimulation can still feel pleasurable.
Opens Room for Experimentation
If you want to get more experimental in bed, anal can be a good gateway. For some people, it’s still a taboo subject.
Breaking that taboo may make you interested in more ways to have fun!
What Types of Anal Dildos Are There?
If you want to shop for anal dildos, you’ll find no shortage of them. Let’s look at some of the main types you may find.
Butt Plug
The butt plug is shaped to fit inside your ass with ease. Its flat base also ensures it won’t get stuck inside you.
There is a good reason why the butt plug is the first thing most people think of when they think of anal toys.
You can find smaller plugs designed for newbies and larger ones for more experienced users.
Everyone will have fun with these!
Anal Beads
Anal beads have several connected beads, going from tiny to large. At the end of the toy, a ring makes it simple to pull them out when you’re done!
Anal beads come in several shapes and sizes, and some even vibrate.
Prostate Toys
I mentioned these earlier, so I won’t talk about them too much. But to summarize, if you’re male or assigned male at birth, these toys are a must!
Also Read:
7 Best Dildos for Men to Tap The P-Spot
Pegging Toys
These are dildos that are usually attached to a harness. If you want to penetrate your partner anally, and you don’t have the goods yourself, you may want to give this a whirl.
Anal Douches
While not toys per se, anal douches are vital to having a good anal experience.
You will need to use these to clean yourself out, and many of them will have toy attachments you can use to have a little fun while doing so.
Vibrating Toys
These toys vibrate and can be any of the above. Some use Bluetooth, letting you control their movements through an advanced app.
Others can be controlled through a button on the base or via a remote.
Anal Dildo Materials
Dildos come in several materials to choose from. If you’re unsure what to pick up when you visit the store, no problem. Here are some major materials a dildo may consist of:
- Silicone: Silicone-based dildos are body-safe and add a bit of flexibility. They are also non-porous, so they don’t need much cleaning to be ready for use next time.
- Glass: Glass dildos are rigid and come in unique shapes. You can also heat or freeze a glass dildo for amazing temperature play. That said, do not use a glass dildo that has been dropped or chipped. Glass dildos are sturdy going in, but not when they’re damaged!
- Metal: Metal is similar to glass but less fragile.
You may also see dildos from other materials, such as jelly or PVC. These materials are less body-safe and can be porous.
Porous means that the dildo will absorb bacteria, and it’s more difficult to sanitize. And where you’re putting that dildo is no stranger to bacteria!
Also Read: 7 Best Dildos For Beginners
Top 7 Anal Dildos Reviewed
Now, let’s look at my top 7 anal dildos. This list is categorized into several categories to meet your various needs.
1. Lovehoney Butt Tingler: Best Overall
When choosing the best overall toy, several factors led me to this decision. The first was, which type of anal toy is the best-known?
And the answer to that is the butt plug. Then, which butt plug fits most budgets?
Also, which butt plug is big enough to satisfy most people? Finally, I wanted to know which butt plug had the best bells and whistles. And this one was the winner.
First, it’s a vibrating butt plug with several speeds and modes to choose from. All you need to do is press the button on the base to turn it on or change settings.
Vibration may not be everyone’s cup of tea, but it’s an optional feature. Also, the buttplug is submersible.
In other words, you can play with yourself in the bath or shower, and you don’t need to worry about using too much water when you clean it.
The butt plug is also the perfect size. It has a 3.75-inch maximum girth, which should satisfy beginners while being a good warm-up for experienced users.
Finally, this butt plug is quite affordable. You won’t need to eat soup for a week to experience its power.
While it’s not as advanced as a Bluetooth butt plug, it’s still quite good for the price. With that said some sacrifices have to be made.
For example, you need an AAA battery to power it, and it’s not included. More expensive butt plugs tend to use USB recharging, which is less of a hassle.
So grab yourself a battery before you buy.
Pros
- Decent vibration.
- Waterproof.
- Affordable.
Cons
- Requires an AAA battery.
2. Mantric Rechargeable Prostate Vibrator: Best Prostate Dildo
If you or your partner has a prostate, a prostate dildo is a must. Many are on the market, and I believe this one from Mantric is a good choice.
It’s not cheap, but it’s also not unaffordable. The dildo has a curved shape, which is designed to find your prostate with ease.
Via a remote control, you can also change vibration modes. A panel on the base will change color according to which mode is your favorite.
That is a nice touch. Also, this toy is USB rechargeable, which means you don’t need to buy an extra pair of batteries.
Oh, and it’s waterproof, too—at least the toy is. If you’re using the remote, keep it away from the water.
The toy also has other little features. For example, there’s a travel lock function, which helps you discreetly bring the toy with you as you travel the world.
The one downside is that the vibration settings aren’t as wide as you would think, with it lacking many speeds. But most people should still be satisfied with it.
Pros
- The perfect size and shape to reach your prostate.
- Waterproof.
- Rechargeable.
Cons
- It’s not the biggest variety of vibration settings.
3. 10 Function Extra Quiet Posable Silicone Anal Beads: Best Anal Beads
There are all sorts of anal beads you can choose from, so why these? I believe these are the best anal beads for most people.
First, they are a balanced length of 8 insertable inches, with a circumference of 3.25. Both experienced individuals and newbies should have fun with these!
The beads are also not too expensive, but don’t feel cheap, either. Finally, another reason why I picked these beads is because they vibrate.
You don’t need to have vibration to have fun with anal beads, but it certainly helps. You simply need to press the button at the base to experience some orgasm-inducing vibrations.
What’s also nice is that this toy is waterproof. You can have some fun in the shower without ruining the toy. It’s also quiet as a whisper.
If you are trying to be discreet, these beads certainly help.
With that said, there are some downsides. First, don’t expect this toy to use rechargeable USB batteries.
It uses AAA batteries, so stock up on them or rechargeable ones. The batteries are also not included.
Pros
- Affordable vibrating anal beads on a budget.
- Waterproof.
- Easy to control.
Cons
- Requires batteries that are not included.
4. Starter: Best Pegging Dildo
A harness can be an excellent tool for those who are lacking penises, or those who have erection issues.
It can also be an excellent way to experiment with being a receiver. With that said, which pegging dildo should you get? I highly recommend the Starter.
It’s in the name!
The Starter is a smooth, skinny pegging dildo that is 1 inch in diameter and nearly 5 inches of insertable length.
If you have extensive receiving experience, this may not be useful.
However, its cute design makes it non-threatening for newbies. Honestly, a more experienced person may like the Starter as a warm-up.
Also, this dildo is easy to clean, too. Being made from silicone, you can wipe it down, or even put it in the dishwasher.
Pros
- Smooth and non-intimidating.
- Fits most harnesses.
- Easy to clean.
Cons
- Some experienced users may not get the most out of this toy.
5. Colt Anal Douche: Best Anal Douche
When you’re experiencing anal toys, you want to clean yourself out. This is to prevent the toy from getting anything gross (you know, poop) on it.
Plus, cleaning yourself out makes the toy go inside much easier.
Most anal douches are the same; with a bulb, you fill up with water and a nozzle you insert into yourself.
But this one includes an anal bead-shaped nozzle attachment that can double as a toy. It can be a good warm-up before you get to the real thing.
Pros
- Great for cleaning.
- Comes with an extra nozzle.
Cons
- Nothing. It’s a bulb that does its job.
6. Pris Toys Asteroid Textured Silicone 4.5 Inch: Best Textured Dildo
Textured dildos can feel so amazing! A newbie should try them smoothly, but when you feel like you want a little more, a dildo with a bit of texture can be so exciting.
Many textured dildos are based on monsters or other objects. In this dildo’s particular case, it’s based on an asteroid texture.
This toy is made from body-safe silicone, and its 4.5-inch insertable length should fit most people. You can choose from three sizes, meaning that both newbies and experienced folks will have something they will love.
Also, these are hand-made toys.
This means that the toy you receive will be unique from someone else’s. Just like the asteroid itself, little nuances make one different from the other!
Pros
- Beautiful texture.
- Comes in several sizes.
- Each toy is unique.
Cons
- Lacks any other bells and whistles.
7. BASICS Anal Beads 6-Inch: Best Low Budget Toy
Most of the toys I’ve listed are affordable for most readers. But what if you’re struggling? What if you only have $10 to spend before taxes and shipping?
Or, what if you want to travel and you don’t want to bring your more expensive toys with you?
Then the answer to that is this anal bead toy from BASICS. It’s a six-inch toy that has six insertable balls. It’s great if you’re on a low budget, or if you’re traveling.
That said, some sacrifices have to be made to get a toy this cheap, and these sacrifices come in the materials used to make the toy.
This toy consists of PVC. While this PVC toy is phthalate-free. You can probably tell from how hard that word is to read that phthalates are bad news.
Still, PVC is porous, meaning this toy can be challenging to clean. For some porous toys, you can put a condom on, but I don’t see a condom working for anal beads.
So be sure you have an area where you can give this toy a deep cleaning or make this toy a one-time-use ordeal.
Pros
- Very cheap.
- Beads should fit most needs.
- Colorful.
Cons
- It’s porous!
How to Choose a Safe Anal Dildo?
You’re putting a dildo right into your ass. Because of this simple fact, you need something that will be safe.
Here are some things to consider.
Materials
The materials are essential. You want to ensure that you don’t have any allergies to the materials listed on the box or the web page.
Second, you want to go with anal toys made from non-porous materials. Silicone, metal, and glass will not absorb bacteria.
Also, never make a dildo from materials that are not designed to go inside of you. Avoid homemade dildos if possible.
Design
The dildo should be designed for anal insertion. For example, its base should be made so that it doesn’t get lost inside of your ass.
A dildo designed to reach your prostate is also another consideration.
Size
Bigger is not always better. Unless you have experience, you don’t want to insert a dildo that is too big for you.
This can lead you to get injured, and that’s no good!
Instead, go for a dildo that you can handle. Start small, and then work your way up.
Waterproof
If your dildo is vibrating, be sure that it’s waterproof as well. Using the dildo when you’re in the bath or shower may lead to failure or, worse, electric shock.
Luckily, most vibrating dildos, even the cheap ones, are waterproof. But it doesn’t hurt to double-check.
Preparation Before Using Anal Toys
Never, ever, ever put a toy inside of you without preparation! It can cause pain, which is never good.
You need a little prep before you place any toy inside of you. So, how do you prep and prep well?
First, you want to clean yourself out. Purchase an enema bulb, and give yourself a good flush. Wipe down as well. Anal play does not have to be messy in the wrong ways.
Then, relax. You don’t want to put the toy inside of you when your anus is feeling a little clenched.
Turn the lights down low. Play your favorite song. Then, put a little something in your anus.
It can be a finger or a small dildo. Whatever the case, be sure that it’s lubed. Use a little water, silicone, or hybrid-based lubricant.
Once you feel relaxed and your hole has opened up, put the dildo inside of you slowly. Be sure the dildo is nice and lubed.
Pull it out if it feels uncomfortable, and give yourself more prep.
With some prep, you can turn your first experience into something magical and not something awkward.
How To Clean an Anal Dildo
Any sex toy that you use should be cleaned, especially one that has been in your ass! Anal dildos are relatively easy to clean.
If your dildo is made from non-porous materials, such as silicone, metal, or glass, it’s simple.
You just need some mild soap and warm water. Let the toy air dry, then put it in a silk container bag.
Put it in a cool, dry place.
You can also clean it using a toy cleaner. These cleaners are designed to remove bacteria without requiring too much effort.
If your dildo is made from porous materials, you shouldn’t be using it, anyway. But if you must, put a condom over the toy before you use it.
Then, give the toy a deep cleaning. Again, I would recommend avoiding porous materials.
Some dildos are also machine-washable. If no one is sharing the dishwasher, pop the dildo in the dishwasher and go about your day. You can also boil a dildo if you want to give it a deep clean.
With all this said, I would highly recommend you read the instructions included with your dildo.
These instructions can help you figure out if there are any special cleaning requirements.
Depending on materials, waterproof status, and many other factors, there may be specific ways to clean.
FAQ
Are Anal Dildos Safe?
Anal dildos are generally safe to use as long as you follow precautions. First, purchase a dildo from an authorized retailer.
Ensure the dildo is made from body-safe materials such as silicone. Prepare yourself by using smaller toys.
Finally, use lots of lube.
Can An Anal Dildo Get Lost Inside Me?
Anal dildos have bases designed to pull the toy out when you’re done. However, one should still be cautious.
If a dildo gets stuck inside of you, try squatting and pushing it out. If you cannot, a trip to the emergency room may be in order.
How To Use a Suction Cup Dildo For Anal?
Suction cup dildos allow you to place them on the floor, wall, or harness. Make sure that the dildo is sticking well before you use it.
There are many different ways to use a suction cup dildo.
Stick it to a flat, dry surface. You can add a bit of petroleum jelly to the outer rims to get it to stick well.
Then, lube up and ease it into you.
What Lube Should I Use With an Anal Dildo?
If you’re using a silicone dildo, use water-based lubricants. These lubes are safe to use on silicone toys.
Pure silicone lubes can be slick, yet they may damage silicone toys. A hybrid lube gives you the best of both worlds, lasting a while and not damaging toys.
How Can I Prevent My Anal Dildo From Smelling Bad?
Clean yourself out before every use. Only use anal dildos that are made from non-porous materials, such as silicone, glass, or metal.
Wash the dildo using soap and water after every use. Following these steps will allow your dildo to smell great.