Last Updated on March 27, 2024 by Kelly
If you want to spice things up in your sex life, double penetration (DP) may do the trick. But you may not know what DP is and if it’s right for you.
After all, DP can be intimidating. You’re trying two penises at once. What positions should you try? How does it all work? Does it hurt?
There are so many questions. It can be overwhelming if you’re a newbie to the kink sphere.
So, I’ll be your guide as you enter this exciting world. I’ll tell you what DP is, what types of DP there are, some positions, and more.
I’ll also give you tips on how to make your DP sessions memorable.
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What Is Double Penetration?
Double penetration involves two penises inside a person at once. DP can also be performed with DP sex dildos, fists, or any other object.
Typically, when a person imagines DP, they may imagine a penis in the vagina and one in the ass.
But there are many different ways to do DP besides that.
Types of Double Penetration
There are several types of double penetration, including:
Vaginal and Anal
This type is what most people think of when they hear “double penetration.” Two penises (or one penis and a toy) go inside of a woman.
Mouth and Vagina (Or ass)
This position replaces the vagina or ass with the mouth. This type of DP can unlock many memorable sexual positions, such as spit roasting!
Two in One
This position is where you put two penises in the vagina, two in the ass, or two in the mouth. It can be a lot trickier to do this.
You’ll need to relax yourself quite a bit, use lots of lube, and know your limits.
5 Benefits Of Trying Double Penetration
Are you unsure about trying DP? There are many, many benefits of trying it. Here are five of them.
The Excitement of Pushing the Limits
One reason DP is beneficial is because of pushing your limits. How many cocks can you take?
What is the maximum amount of pleasure you can feel? Your limits can be discovered or you can realize that you want more with DP!
It Feels Amazing
It’s simple math. If one penis or toy inside of you feels good, then two will feel even better. DP can bring you more pleasure as it stimulates multiple holes.
With DP, you also have more of that “full” feeling, which can feel oh-so-good.
Your mileage may vary, but I can vouch that DP is so good you may not want to return to one person.
It Feels Incredible for the Person Doing the Penetrating
It feels suitable for you and the person (or people) doing you. It feels kinky, and some men like the idea of rubbing against another guy.
It Has Science to Explain Why it Feels so Good
You don’t need to be in STEM to understand why DP feels good. But knowing the science of it is fun.
So DP feels so good because women have nerve endings in both their pussy and ass. There’s also the perineal sponge or PS-spot.
Have you never heard of it? That’s okay, as it’s not talked about much in sex ed. The PS-Spot is right between your vaginal canal and anus.
Your PS-Spot gets that one-two punch when you receive DP from both ends. The orgasms skyrocket. Enough said.
Some women describe it as being put in a trance. I don’t know if any readers have a hypnotism fetish, but if you do, you’ll love DP!
It Explores the Taboo Side of Sex
Another reason why DP is popular is because there’s a bit of taboo to it. Sure, some aspects are less taboo.
A woman liking anal isn’t as scandalous as it once was. And having multiple partners is becoming more acceptable.
Still, there are many prudes and puritans in the world. Especially if a woman comes from a sexually repressive society,
DP can help to break some of the taboos surrounding sex that people still have their panties in a twist over.
These are just some of DP’s benefits. I could go on about how amazing it feels, but it’s time to move on.
Do Women Like Double Penetration?
Many women like DP, but it depends on the person. Some women may love the feeling of being full.
They may also like how slutty it makes them feel. But some women may enjoy the feeling of one person or object.
Does Double Penetration Feel Good for Men, Too?
What about men or those assigned male at birth? You bet that men can join in on the fun! With that said, DP is a little more limiting for our male-bodied friends.
There are two ways a man can do DP. The first is double anal. While I’ve never tried it myself, I know it requires a lot of preparation.
Think of studying for a college final. Unless you have experience, you should probably ease yourself. Stretch yourself with a toy or one penis. Use a lot of lube.
Try different positions until you can find the right one.
Alternatively, you can try the mouth and the ass. This position may be a little more feasible for a newcomer. Once you feel ready, try double anal.
Of course, if we are talking about if it feels good for the man to penetrate the woman, then of course it does!
The Many Different Ways to Double Penetrate
With DP, there are many positions you can try. Let’s look at some of them.
Cowgirl/Reverse Cowgirl
Cowgirl is an excellent position for regular sex and is also great for DP. Get in the cowgirl position with one penis, and then the other penis goes into your ass.
It’s as simple as that. As you probably know, reverse cowgirl is when the woman turns 180 degrees.
Doggy
Doggy style in the context of DP involves the girl going on all fours. One man then enters her ass while crouching down.
The other enters the woman’s vagina. This position can be challenging to pull off. It’s also recommended for men who are bisexual or bicurious.
The balls are going to touch at some point. I don’t make the rules.
Missionary
Missionary involves the woman lying on her back like an ordinary missionary pose. One man crouches and goes inside her vagina, and the standing man enters her ass.
What is nice about this pose is that there will be free hands meaning you or the man can add more pleasure by rubbing your clit.
King of Clubs
This pose involves the two men facing each other, legs crossed. As close as they can to where the penises are probably going to touch.
Again, I don’t make the rules. If the two men are uncomfortable over this, try something else. In the crouching position, the woman mounts both cocks.
This pose works well for double vaginal or double anal.
Spit Roast/Eiffel Tower
These are the names of two positions that are virtually the same. The spit roast is when one penis goes inside from behind and the other in the mouth.
The woman is usually in a doggy-style position when it happens. With the Eiffel Tower, the men put their hands together to form the shape of the titular tower.
It’s kinda cute.
These are just some of the many positions you can try while doing DP. You have to try them all!
Does Double Penetration Hurt?
There may be some soreness involved after DP. However, DP should never make you feel in pain. If you’re hurting, then this is your body’s way of telling you that something is wrong.
The best way to prevent pain is to prepare. Foreplay can help you relax and open yourself up.
Use plenty of lube to help the cock or toy slide in you. Use smaller toys or your fingers to help open your ass up.
How Do You Prepare for It?
If you’ve done DP, then chances are, you’ve done some anal. The same rules apply here.
Clean yourself out, ease yourself in with a smaller toy, and if you feel pain, take a step back.
Besides that, be sure to communicate with your partners.
Tips for Trying Double Penetration
If you’re still unsure about DP, here are some tips to help you. I gathered some of the best tips for when you’re taking two tips.
Finding the Right Third
If you want to try DP without toys, finding a third person or two people may be difficult if you’re single. If you’re dating someone, be sure that he is okay with you doing it.
If not, try using toys first. If he is down for it, or if you’re searching for a third person, where should you go to find this person?
There are plenty of dating apps for kink. Feeld is one. You can go to sex forums and ask around. Swingers, clubs, and bars are always good.
Don’t be afraid to be choosy. You want to find a third who knows that this is for pleasure.
You’ll also want someone or multiple people with good chemistry with you or your partner.
No Pain Allowed
While DP should make you feel full, it shouldn’t be painful. Your body is telling you that something is wrong when you feel pain.
If you’re hurting, take a step back. You may need more preparation.
Communicate
The first rule is to communicate. You’re taking two cocks at once, and things can get chaotic.
There needs to be communication if something is wrong on anyone’s end. Safety words are a time-tested way to communicate.
Also, talk about your turn-ons and turn-offs before you have sex. Acknowledge that the first time may be full of mistakes.
Someone may go a little too hard, or one person may get a little jealous. This is especially true if you’re doing DP with a new person who doesn’t know your body.
You can discuss anything wrong during the aftercare part, which I’ll discuss briefly.
Lube it Up
When you’re doing DP and one toy or cock is going in your ass, be sure to use lots of lube.
Honestly, because of how DP works, you probably want to use lube for your pussy, too. Water-based lubes work well for cocks and toys.
For a cock, silicone-based lube means you don’t have to reapply it as much. But don’t use silicone lubes on silicone toys.
This type of lube may damage your toys.
Clean Before You Switch
So one partner is penetrating your pussy, and the other is the ass. They then want to switch it up. That’s great and all, but think of the bacteria entering your pussy.
Wash that cock off before switching. Use a toy cleaner or soap and water on your toys if you’re doing that route.
Clean in There
Speaking of which, be sure to clean your anus if you’re going to be doing anal. TMI, I know, but this is important.
Use some soap and water to wash your ass. If needed, use an enema. An enema can reduce the chances of it getting a little gross.
Ease Yourself In
Unless you’re experienced, you don’t want to go straight to DP. Start with some foreplay or masturbation. Use smaller toys on your butt first.
Explore each other’s bodies. It’s not a race. Going right in can cause pain, and DP shouldn’t feel painful. Consider using different sex toys on your body to open up.
Try Different Positions
What DP position works best for you depends on your body type and preferences. Don’t just go by what you see in porn; comfort comes first.
Practice Aftercare
When it’s all said and done, aftercare is essential. Communicate with your partners about your experience.
Talk about the good and the not-so-good. If mistakes happen, don’t sound too mad about it.
You’re new to this, and so are your partners. Use these mistakes to make the next experience even better!
Drink some water. Pee. You may feel sore, so use some salve. But you shouldn’t be hurting for days. If this happens, talk to a doctor.
These are just several tips to get you started. If you’re going to take anything from this, realize that communication, preparation, and having fun are the most essential tips.