Last Updated on September 19, 2023 by Kelly
Ah, the wonderous world of anal play — even if you’ve never experienced it, you’re probably curious to see how it feels.
After all, it’s all the rave right now; it’s new, it’s exhilarating, and it feels like mmmm…
Wait, what does a butt plug feel like?
Wearing a butt plug can arouse feelings unlike anything else you’ve ever experienced. Yes, that even includes anal sex.
Moreover, it’s not just one explicit feeling but rather an avalanche of various sensations flooding your body and mind.
Of course, whether you end up enjoying these new sensations is a different story altogether. Admittedly, butt plugs aren’t really for everyone.
But as the wisdom goes: you’ll never know until you try.
Still, knowing what to expect can make your first time with a butt plug much easier.
So fear not, fellow pleasure-seeker; here is everything you can expect when wearing a butt plug for the first time.
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What Does Wearing a Butt Plug Feel Like?
No words can ever perfectly encapsulate the rousing sensation of a sex toy stuffed up your ass.
Besides, different butt plug aficionados will describe vastly different sensations upon questioning.
However, some sensations are pretty typical:
It Feels Cold
As the butt plug grazes your anus, the very first thing you’ll notice is how cold it feels. But don’t feel embarrassed if you let out a little yelp before the plug even enters your body.
The cold sensation is a direct result of lubricant — something that you’ll end up using a lot.
Though it can get messy, lube is an essential part of your anal play toolkit.
Even the pros swear upon their personal lubricants as one of the greatest creations of humankind.
Unfortunately, most lubricants feel very cold against the skin owing to their chemical composition.
Now, some people end up enjoying the nippy and tingly sensation of cold lube. There is a name for this preference in the kinky hall of fame: temperature play.
In fact, certain types of butt plugs specifically cater to this temperature play kink.
The outside of your anus has multiple nerve endings, and you can arouse them even without any insertion. It’s only a matter of conditioning yourself to associate the coldness with pleasure.
At the same time, some people can’t stand the feeling of cold and prickly lube against their anus. Luckily, there are many ways to bring the temperature of the lube up to bearable levels.
First, you can warm up the lube before you use it.
To do this, you can warm up some water (without boiling it) and submerge the sealed bottle of lube in the heat bath for five minutes.
Additionally, you can steer clear of metal butt plugs as they are the coldest at room temperature. Instead, stick to silicone or glass butt plugs.
It Can Hurt
We won’t sugarcoat it; your first time inserting a butt plug can be a little uncomfortable.
Even if you were generous with the lube or position yourself at the ideal angle, your anus sometimes won’t give up easily.
That’s perfectly normal, though; your anal sphincter muscles aren’t used to being forcefully stretched.
On the contrary, that’s something your body usually does unconsciously— usually when you have to poop.
And that’s another thing; when you start to stretch your inner and outer sphincters, it could feel an awful lot like you need to poop.
But don’t worry because that’s just your body falsely associating the feeling of a stretched sphincter with defecation.
So don’t worry about accidentally pooping and potentially ruining the whole experience.
Just relax your body as much as you can. Before you know it, the most challenging part will be over.
That being said, there is always the possibility that the toy can cause excessive discomfort, tearing, and pain.
In this case, you should stop trying to insert the toy any further.
You Will Feel Comfortable After a While
After the initial stretching, you will reach a point where your anal muscles immediately give way and swallow the butt plug.
Yes, that description doesn’t paint the most flattering mental image. However, you’ll immediately feel a sense of relief as the butt plug “plops” inside your ass.
You can thank your muscular mechanism for this convenient motion. While the anal sphincters may put up a fight, your anal canal is much more inviting to the butt plug.
This is because the muscles simultaneously relax and constrict, thereby sucking up the butt plug and immediately securing it in place.
It’s almost like our butts were naturally designed for anal play.
Moreover, the tapered shape of the butt plug complements this natural muscular motion perfectly.
The cinched top makes way for the bulbous part of the plug to prevent much resistance or pain.
Combine that with a good lube, and the toy will slide right in.
It Feels Full Once You’re Relaxed
Once the butt plug is entirely inside you, the sensation of it can feel quite strange.
Especially if you’ve never engaged in anal play before, the feeling of a toy inside your ass can be bizarre. “Full” is the best way to describe what it’s like to have a butt plug filling you to the brim.
Depending on the shape and size, butt plugs press against your anal canal. By extension, it also presses against your other organs, hence the “fullness” feeling.
Moreover, your rectum creates a vacuum-like pressure that keeps the butt plug snug inside your butt.
The pressure created by the butt plug is what many people find enjoyable about anal play.
It Gets You Horny Fast
Conventional sexual discourse may have you believing that vaginal and clitoral stimulation is the only way to arouse yourself. But that couldn’t be farther from the truth.
On the contrary, the anus is one of the most erogenous zones for both men and women.
The anus is packed with highly sensitive and erogenous nerve endings.
These nerves extend from the outer anus region to the anal canal.
Hence, you’re on a rollercoaster of arousal from the moment the toy touches your butt to the point of full insertion.
Apart from the nerve endings present inside your anus, specific nerves extend to other erogenous organs as well.
Therefore, you’re not only stimulating your anal muscles but also your clitoris, vagina, and vulva.
In other words, you don’t even have to move the plug; the mere pressure is enough to make you weak in the knees.
But why stop there?
You can easily crank up the pleasure by using a vibrating butt plug. A vibrating butt plug will not only make you feel “full” but will also reward you with pulsating pleasure.
This is how something as simple as a butt plug can send waves of pleasure throughout your body until you can no longer resist it.
Also Read: What Are The Best Butt Plugs For Novices?
It Makes For a Killer Orgasm
People have described anal orgasms as the most intense orgasms they’ve ever experienced.
In fact, some have confessed that they can never go back to conventional stimulation methods once they’ve experienced an anal orgasm.
Anal orgasms are most similar to clitoral orgasms because they are pulsating and can be long-lasting.
Moreover, your anal muscles will start contracting much like your vagina does during the climax.
As always, you can always take it up a notch and combine anal play with vaginal penetration and clitoral stimulation.
With so many different sources of stimulation, you’ll feel just short of passing out. That’s the dream, isn’t it?
Or It Could Feel Like Nothing At All
Don’t take this out of context, but size matters. So does the shape and material of the butt plug.
With that in mind, your first time using a butt plug could very well feel like nothing at all. If this happens, a wrong-sized butt plug is to blame.
While it is always a good idea to start small, you don’t want to go too small.
Undersized butt plugs won’t create that pressure and feeling of fullness that you need for sexual stimulation.
On the other hand, you might discover that you’re just not into anal play at all.
The fact is that everybody’s bodies respond differently to different forms of sexual stimulation.
For example, some people enjoy intense clitoral play, while others can easily achieve an orgasm through penetration alone.
Similarly, not everyone will enjoy the feeling of a butt plug. If you fall into this latter category, don’t beat yourself up for it.
It’s simply something you personally don’t enjoy, and that’s perfectly okay.
Also Read: What Are Butt Plugs Used For?
Is it Easy to Remove a Butt Plug? Will You Feel Anything?
After an intense night of butt plug play, you’re sure to feel highly satisfied, exhausted, and flushed.
However, there’s still the small matter of removing the butt plug. You might think that removing the plug should be easier than insertion.
But remember: your anal muscles are clenching the plug tightly.
Resist the urge to yank out the butt plug in one motion. Not only will this not work, but it will also create micro-tears along your anal canal.
Instead, you’ll have to rely on a combination of gently pulling the plug and pushing the plug out as if you were having a bowel movement.
While you’re doing this, your muscles will keep contracting around the butt plug.
This will feel a little uncomfortable at first, but the key is to take your time as you keep pushing and pulling.
What Does Wearing a Butt Plug For a Longer Period Feel Like?
Once you start delving deeper into the sensual world of anal play, you’ll probably want to start wearing butt plugs outside of the bedroom.
Whether you wear the plug around the house or even step out in public, you can look forward to some full-day fun.
Wearing a butt plug for long periods of time is just as mentally arousing as it is physically.
And since you’re not just lying in bed, the different range of motions will kindle new sensations.
In fact, the smallest things like walking or sitting can elicit a few moans.
As you move, the butt plug will keep shifting in place. You will feel a new sensation each time you move.
At the same time, you might find yourself feeling uncomfortable because of the constantly shifting butt plug.
What Does Wearing a Butt Plug Feel Like During Sex?
Wearing a butt plug during sex is the pinnacle of sexual pleasure. So why limit yourself to just one erogenous zone?
For women, a butt plug during sex (vaginal penetration) maximizes sexual arousal.
The feeling of being stuffed in both holes truly is like no other.
But your male partner can revel in the moment as well. Wearing a butt plug constricts your vaginal walls since the toy is pushing against them.
Hence, it can make your vagina feel tighter for your partner as he penetrates you.
Butt Plugs For Men
People often think that only women can feel erotic pleasure using butt plugs.
But don’t fall prey to the homo hysterical notion that butt plugs are feminine or “gay.” Every man can experience what a butt plug feels like.
The truth is men can enjoy butt plugs just as much as women— if not more.
As it turns out, there is a biological reason why men experience superior anal pleasure through butt plugs: the prostate.
The prostate is a male-specific gland inside the anus that has numerous highly sensitive nerve endings.
And since all biological men have a prostate, there is no reason why butt plugs should be limited to a specific sexual orientation.
In many ways, men have a biological advantage over women when it comes to anal arousal.
At the end of the day, you should revel in your sexual freedom and make full use of the nerve endings present inside your anal canal.
And what better way to do so than through the feeling of a butt plug?